I think some men just want a quiet peaceful
life 
As long as both parties are happy, why not?
but personally I don't think I can tahan this kind of
arrangement, no matter how chio the MOB.
Hanor!
I look at the construction workers around my neighbourhood...
very manly and young, virile, rippling muscles with sweat
glistening under the sun... I walk past, they look up at me, give
me that awesome sweet smile and a wink and I almost get a cardiac
arrest but have to look kewl, walk on, BREATHE, girl!!
But then you think about it, you start a relationship with them,
'some' aspect of the relationship is bound to be sizzling hot, but
then, WHAT do you talk about afterwards? 
I know myself
and I know how pai si I can be when I feel that the men do not
match up intellectually and pai seh... I've been pretty nasty in my
younger days. 
Like
basically, if you put yourself out there for me to trample on, it
was hard to resist the urge to trample, esp in my hot-headed,
hot-blooded younger days...
So yeah... nice to look at, will be a hot fling, but won't be
everlasting.
Worse, maybe you pass by the REAL man of your dreams in the
neighbourhood whilst you're hopelessly flirting with the object of
your lust, and that man goes tsk tsk... another slut, thus
destroying all hopes of future communication with him.
If you analyze it, it's not worth it.
